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There went 14 months of TTC

Started AF today. Cried, yelled, cursed, kicked and screamed. So sick of trying and it not happening despite my husbands tests and mine all coming back perfect. Dr says no reason we can't concieve. This next cycle will be # 15 of TTC for us. We are young, happy, have great careers, and in wonderful health, where is a baby for us? If one more person tells me to "quit trying" "think positive" "quit stressing over it" I'm going to freak out on them! I am so confused!!! I O every month right on schedule, this month, I went the extra 10 miles and had sex every other day for the whole month so as not to miss any opportunity!!!!! Sorry to vent....I'm at work alone today and away from my husband so no one to chat with about this......

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Asked by MrsVosky at 12:51 PM on Jun. 2, 2011 in Trying to Conceive

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  • im sorry


    Answer by letstalk747 at 12:53 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • awwwwww sorry :( i know howhard it can be... what tests have your doctors done??? have your tryed any medications???

    Answer by Kambrosino07 at 12:54 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • By any chance, do you guys ever let loose and get drunk?

    Answer by ABeaverhausen at 12:56 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • Oh lord I'm soo sorry

    Answer by proudmom717 at 12:57 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • No meds, cause all my hormones are normal! Had a sperm analysis (normal) HSG (one tube slow to leak dye, but normal otherwise), and of course routine pap and hormone tests....Dr won't do any meds cause there is no problems! I go back for a follow up on monday...I'm sure I will still have no answers except "keep trying"

    Comment by MrsVosky (original poster) at 12:57 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • (((HUGS)))

    feel better


    Answer by kylansmommy09 at 12:58 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • and yes...let loose and have drinks and do the deed!! We figure it can't hurt!

    Comment by MrsVosky (original poster) at 12:58 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • Yes, I have been there too. I was married 13 years before I had enough "trying" & my regular OBGYN saying "Oh it will happen" . Well, I did my own research & found a Reproductive Specialist & was pregnant within 3 months. My DH & I had no fertility issues either. After my Son was born, I intended on doing IVF again & Surprise! i am finally pregnant on my own & due shortly. You need to go to a Reproductive Specialist. They are the Doctors who will get you Pregnant not a regular OBGYN. Don't waste your time & energy. GL!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 1:04 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • I'm sorry Mommy.. we tried for 3 years so I know this monthly pain !! It turned out I had Endometreosis which was only found because I sometimes had pain having sex and after 2 years of everything "looking" fine I think my dr finally caved to my bitching and did a laparoscopy and found I had endometriosis.. burned it off and was pregnant in 3 months.. at the time I had no other symptoms of it other than sometimes discomfort in certain positions during sex and a weird cramping during my period which was passed of as normal cramps which I thought it really could have been..

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:10 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

  • I'm so sorry!

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 2:07 PM on Jun. 2, 2011

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