If so, who gets priority on pick the names? My aunt is about to be a grandmother for the first time. 2 of her children are having children, one is due in 4 months the other in 6. The one who is due in 6 months has a SM who is getting another grandchild in 7 months. The SM wants to be called "Nana" by all the kids. So does my Aunt. Neither want to share it. I feel my aunt should get the "Nana" title because 1. the 2 grandchildren she is getting are both bio where the SM is getting one from her bio child, on from her step and 2 my aunt is going to be a grandma first (since one of her bios is due in 4 months). Her child who is due in 4 months (is not with my aunt's exDH so the SM is not her SM) wants my aunt to be Nana to her child. The SM's bio child feels the same way but again my aunts children and both due before SM's bio. The SM feels she has claim to the title because she bought an outfit and bib that say "Nana loves me". I know this sounds silly but it is causing WWIII. My aunt has always been the one to give in (and these are her bio children) to keep the peace but this time she is holding her ground. Who do you think has the right to being called "Nana"? And again, neither want to share so that's not a option and neither will agree that they should just both not use "Nana" (I think that is the best option here but hey, that's me).
Answer by Saya at 7:52 PM on Jun. 3, 2011
Answer by Musicmom80 at 11:18 AM on Jun. 3, 2011
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Answer by But_Mommie at 11:19 AM on Jun. 3, 2011
Answer by Dr.Donna at 11:23 AM on Jun. 3, 2011
Answer by NotPanicking at 3:06 PM on Jun. 3, 2011
Answer by MizLee at 3:59 PM on Jun. 3, 2011
I agree with MIZ. It should be Nana "first name" and Nana "first name." Why do they each require SEPERATE titles? That is just nonsense imo. My kids call ALL of their grandparents GRANDMA AND GRANDPA "first name." No one gets a special, lone title.
Answer by KairisMama at 10:15 PM on Jun. 3, 2011
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