im divorced. my current dh and i had a really huge fight. he was verbally abusive and then said some really horrible things about my 2 kids. things a sailor wouldnt say! im also 5 weeks pregnant. this isnt the first time either. i took the kids and went to my moms for a little while. there is also an issue with alcohol. he gets his best material after he drinks! he wants me to come back and doesnt think he has a problem. my son seems relieved that were not there right now. do i go back do i stay? can someone actually change that drastically? i also think if i werent pregnant he wouldnt care if i came back. my kids have been through so much and i dont want to go back and be in the same situation in 3 months. i need advice!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:55 AM on Jun. 4, 2011 in Relationships
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Get a hold of your local women's safety and resource center. They should have so resources for you and especially him. Tell him (and mean it) that he has to go to treatment, if he don't go you don't go home. This is something that should take months and months not weeks. No one changes over night, it's a long process. But definitely get a hold of someone, if nothing else someone to talk to, but definitely don't go back. It's just like giving into your kids it tells them they got you in the palm of there hand.
I am also only saying this is if he is a good guy without the booze, if he isnt' just stay away but still call.
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