I do not allow my kids to see their father. I do not allow them to talk to him on the phone bc i do not want my oldest to start asking questions. he doesnt do anything for them. And really never has.. Well i found out my mom has been talkin to their father on the phone and allowing my daughter to talk to him. i think she is wrong! They are my children i raise them ALONE. i do not feel he has any rights to them bc he is such a dead beat father.. am i wrong for not wating her to do that??
the guy im dating now feels my kids should see their father no matter if hes done for them or not. like i said before i dont see how he has a right to have anything to do with them. we argued over this so many times i eventually gave in and called their dad. he said he wants to see them and will call back with a time and day.. im still waiting on the call. we will see how this works out.. I have giving him more then 3 chances to see them.. I never get diapers, clothes, shoes anything and thats my biggest thing...... i really feel like this is a bad idea bc in the end i know hes not going to see them for weeks after this IF he sees them this time. Should i allow my kids to keep seeing him and as they get older they can decided if they want to keep seeing him.. or should i just keep them from hurt in the long run?? idk what to do...
Asked by Anonymous at 3:30 PM on Jun. 4, 2011 in Relationships
mama if it were me i probably wouldn't let him see them at all because i wouldn't want them to get hurt when he stops coming around but on the other hand he might change and see them all the time but do what you think is best for your children and i would be really upset with my mom if she did that to me it's not her right or her choice they are your kids and you are going to do what is best for your children hope you figure it all out and things work out
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