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Would you rather marry?

A man that loved you or a man you loved. The man that loves you, you care about but don't love. The man you love, has been generally cold and may only have asked to better his position in life.

I read a book that has had this on my mind. It's based back in early American history when most women had to marry or be spinsters, plus it's based in a really small rural area so odds of meeting Mr. Right is slim.

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Asked by camiam81 at 11:40 PM on Jun. 4, 2011 in

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  • IDK I dont think I could spend my life with someone were the love wasnt mutual, but you know the old saying.... to always marry a man that loves you more than you love him.

    Answer by Princess_s21 at 11:43 PM on Jun. 4, 2011

  • I'd have to say a man that loved me. I couldn't live with someone who didn't love me, it would be a recipe for disaster I think.

    Answer by aliceryannesmom at 11:46 PM on Jun. 4, 2011

  • I'd rather be forced to work in deplorable conditions of a factory than be in a loveless marriage.

    Answer by hill_star03 at 11:55 PM on Jun. 4, 2011

  • Honestly I would rather marry a man that loves me and that I care about than to marry someone I love but who doesn't love me. It is the same thing as a loveless marriage to me. Love can be learned over time.

    Answer by MKSmom09 at 11:56 PM on Jun. 4, 2011

  • A man that loves me.

    Answer by DDWay at 12:09 AM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • A man that loves me. I can't live with that kind of longing and I could take care of someone even if I wasn't in love with him, but I might feel bad.

    Answer by Hazelnutkin at 12:25 AM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • A man that loves me.

    Answer by busymom0474 at 12:31 AM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • A man that I love

    Answer by shortycmlb at 2:07 AM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • loves me

    Answer by flamingomegs at 8:46 AM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • i'd rather marry a man who loves me more than i love him.

    Answer by dayziesnrozes at 9:25 AM on Jun. 5, 2011

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