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2 Bumps

Would you rather a man who:

1. Is super hard-working, very task-oriented, helpful around the house, and a good dad, but he almost never is affectionate or says nice things, and you're not sure he even likes you.


2. A guy who's CRAZY about you, loves to touch you and tell you how wonderful you are, but he's kind of flaky, can't hold down a job, and has some indiscrete habits (maybe gambling or drinking too much).


Asked by Adelicious at 2:55 PM on Jun. 5, 2011 in

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Answers (14)
  • I choose choice #3. My hubs who is the best of both 1 and 2.

    Answer by MamaSunshyne at 5:39 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • HMMMM that is a tough one. I would probably pick number one because that is guy who provides for your family and is responsible. The second on will not work because even though he is affectionate, his habits are bad and may not be a good choice in the long run. Those type of people are good at making you feel good (like the devil), but will screw you over and hold you back. The first guy cares enough to be there and do what he needs to do to support you, he maybe one of those in-affectionate types, but that could change. Maybe he does care, but has trouble showing.... or the third option would be neither one, or you could find someone with a little bit of both of those qualities of the two.

    Answer by prettygirl326 at 3:04 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • yuck... i would have to choose being single!!

    Answer by mrsary at 4:23 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • Number 1.. its what I've got now...and I am used to it. I know he loves me, hes just not an affectionate person.

    Answer by Tarrar at 3:03 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • eeekkk neither!!!!!

    Answer by CassiRae3 at 3:06 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • Neither but if I had to choose I would do #1 because my children matter more then what I want.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:16 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • I would choose number 1.

    Answer by elliecooper at 3:20 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • Number 1

    Answer by HistoryPixie at 3:28 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • 1. If we are still together, he must like me.

    Answer by louise2 at 3:30 PM on Jun. 5, 2011

  • #1

    Answer by happymama02 at 3:33 PM on Jun. 5, 2011