I just got married last month. Of course I had ALWAYS talked about my best friend coming to my wedding. We decided to get married at the JP. I live in another state as my best friend so she couldn't come BUT I told her a million times and always talked about how we were going to have a celebration in VA (which is where my family and she lives). As soon as I knew the date...which was WELL in advance....I told her. i said keep that date open!! She was so siked about it. Well...a couple weeks before I was telling her details about the big day. She goes "Oh shit...John and I have plans that weekend to go to WV!....It's not something I can cancel on." I felt so upset with her because I know they go camping all the time!! And if it was her I'd drop that and go to my best friends wedding! Esp if I knew about it for so long! Then, not that I'm mad that she hasn't done this but it does make me wonder....she is all about giving people gifts esp for weddings,showers, birthdays...she knows where we registered and she didn't even say anything. It was just the thought that would have counted ya kno? I forgot to add that we have been best friends since middle school...almost 10 years.
There's something else that kinda bothers me too. She just moved in with her boyfriend. She hasn't even said "Hey you gotta come see our house!" No, nothing like that. Also, she has a group of friends and has never invited me to hang out with them. Yet, she knows all of my friends. I don't get it!!! Also, she just recently told me a story about having to watch her parents' dogs for the weekend. She told her parents that she HAD to go to this girls birthday party bc it was her 21st. So, I know that if she really wanted to come she would. UGH!
Do you think this is shitty of a best friend? Or am I overreacting? I almost feel like she isn't TRULY my best friend. Why am I not even apart of her life? It's been like this before I even went off to college. This sucks :(
Asked by Anonymous at 7:01 PM on Jun. 5, 2011 in Relationships
That SUCKS!!! Probably time to get a new best friend!!
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