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Would you / could you forgive infidelity ?

under what circumstances would u forgive ?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:42 AM on Jun. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • Not after what I've been through.
    sugamama3

    Answer by sugamama3 at 1:46 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • Nope
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:53 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • I have. It's hard, but we have an amazing marriage now, it was so worth it.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 1:59 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • My mom used to believe that all married men cheat. (not true, btw). After listening to her I believed it when I was younger. My x cheated and I was relieved. I figured if all men cheat then it was over and we could get on with our lives. We did until he continued to cheat and he started hitting. It was the hitting I couldn't deal with. Many men do cheat but the ones who regret it and stop won't do it again. Everyone makes mistakes. Giving a second chance is reasonable.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:00 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • No I never would!!
    roxy0522

    Answer by roxy0522 at 2:49 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • no
    Mexish72

    Answer by Mexish72 at 9:05 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • I would forgive I dont think I would stay
    MizzMejia

    Answer by MizzMejia at 9:13 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • I did once and I will never again. While I understand that counseling and forgivness works for some people it didn't work for us. I forgave my husband for an online affair in which he planned to leave us for a woman in another country. He made promises not to do it again and then ended up having another 4 affairs, one of which with a woman he is now married to only 3 months after our divorce. It is hell for our kids who hate her and I just can't get past how much he hurt our family on purpose. He is not a man of his word at all. I am now convinced, if he does it once he will do it again.
    t3dragonflies

    Answer by t3dragonflies at 9:45 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • No, I would not be able to stay with someone who cheated.
    MizLee

    Answer by MizLee at 11:11 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

  • When my ex-husband cheated on me I caught him in the act. I asked him if he wanted to save our marriage and he said no. I was willing to try though.
    Ms.Gwen

    Answer by Ms.Gwen at 11:28 AM on Jun. 6, 2011

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