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what would u do if u were with somone,and wanted another?

hi iv been with my boy freind 8 years now, he has 3 kids i have 3 and one we have together, id like to no if anyones been were i am. iv been talking to a freind but seems like its getting more then that. i just dont know if i should stop talking to him, i like him alot.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:53 AM on Dec. 10, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Remember the grass always looks greener on the other side and sometimes when you get to the other side it really isnt what you really wanted!! Dont leave something good for a maybe..... if you are in a bad relationship then id take the pros and cons of both and evaluate your situation and what would be best for you and kids!!! But if your BF is good to you and your kids stay and cut off ties with the man you are talking to cause it is just and little crush you have a child and 8 years with your BF thats alot to put behind you for lust!!
    scaredmommy08

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 10:39 AM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • Wow thats hard because 8 years .Depends if he is not abusing u in any way now then u can leave. But do u love him ur boyfriend? That swhy I don't like to have any uy friends i don't want to mistaken love w/ lust. Sometimes its ur mind not ur heart.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:00 AM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • If you're in a good relationship, that's happy, healthy, loving, trusting, and faithful then u definitely do not want to ruin it over lust. If you are happy with ur boyfriend and its been a great 8 years despite the problems and its still good then you don't want to make the wrong mistake just because ur curious. If you love ur boyfriend and want to be with him then I suggest that u cut back on talking to ur friend or cut him off period. If you continue talking to ur friend then u will continue lusting 4 him. It's nothing wrong with having male friends, but if u have any kind of attraction or interest in them besides friendship then yall shouldn't be friends. If ur home is happy u don't want to ruin it. Good luck hun!
    ms.busybody

    Answer by ms.busybody at 10:16 AM on Dec. 10, 2008