I have came to the realization that I have to "cut" my brother, out of my life....
It isn't becuase of him persay, because he is actually a wonderful person. But because of his wife ( who is pregnant with his daughter) , I hate her so much for so many reasons, I just cannot take it anymore.
I have no other "problems" in my life, no other stresses... but because of her, I constantly worry, and I constantly think and feel so sad for my brother and my future niece....
Since they have got together we hardly see my brother, and when we do we can hardly talk to him ( he is actually in a mentally abusive realtionship) , we also know that we will never see the baby... and I think it is best to cut them out now before it gets harder to do so...
But it hurts so bad - he is my only sibling, and his children will be my only neieces / nephews, and my kids only cousins ( my husband is an only child) ...
My parents constantly cry and even started going to church for "help" with this, because they too are lost...
I just dont even know how to do this, or how to start.... has anyone ever been through something like this ?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:15 AM on Jun. 6, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by MizLee at 8:24 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
Answer by momto4girzls at 8:35 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
Answer by attap5 at 9:18 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
I actually know what you are going with through. Its my twin brothers wife and me and my family can not stand her. She thinks that she is better than all of us and tells us all the time about it. But it only got worse she then went out and cheated on my brother with his cousins one was male and the other was our female cousin. Yes she swings both ways. She has also slept with a few of my exes i don't care about them i hate that shes doing this to my brother. Besides shes not a good mother she is all the time leaving my nephews with just anyone in the family and she says she can't bond with her youngest child. hes not even a year old yet and she rarely has anything to do with him. We get them on the weekends but only because we threaten to take them to court because we gave proof she smokes pot and she wrote a letter to my male cousin saying she was willing to give up everything for him. But I still miss my brother.
Answer by Vivian0331 at 9:40 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 9:51 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 9:52 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
Answer by Ms.Gwen at 11:04 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
Answer by mrsary at 11:28 AM on Jun. 6, 2011
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