MY baby is 4yrs old and has a father that doesnt care for her at all what so ever. It hurts and it hurts me real bad. We were together strong before she was born and then when she was born our relationship changed. We were for the most part still in love and were together for about 3 yrs on and off. During my entire relationship with him it was clear he was still in love with his ex and they were always talking. His reasons he because she says hes the father of her kid no dna test nothing to confirm. He told me that she cheated on her husband to be with him. While we were together I didnt mind him talking tto her regarding the kid and only the kid. I didnt mind that he spent time with the kid. but what hurts me is that he puts that girl and the kid before my daughter and myself. After I guess he built a relationship with the kid he basically left me. All of his actions show that he hates me for no apparent reason. He files for visitation and never sees my daughter. my daughter loves him and it breaks my heart that she doesnt have a father. He constantly spends time with his 'son' and none with my daughter. its been a year since she saw him. Instead of trrying to be with her he constantly takes me to court for visitation, more visitiation time and never shows. He maes compliant after complaint against me to dcf to have my daughter taken to foster care. I am a good mother a good person and have been through nothing but shit in my life and feel like I passed that on to my daughter. my daughters bday is at the end of the month and its hard and embarrassing.
I am just so hurt. So hurt that he abandons his flesh and blood for someone else and her kid. I cant get over it and just want good things and happiness but I doubt Id ever be happy and I dont want my daughter to grow like me and he unahppy.
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