ok so i do this with my husband to please him rather then me. it really doesn't feel good to me in any way. he has been asking and so i said ok. thing was that while i was on top of him hurting while doing it i got to thinking how selfish it is of him to ask and see me in this state of pain. i started to feel resentful...is this wrong of me?
after all i did say ok, again. i guess after the first time i just should of said never again. to me though it just seems like if he knows i don't like it why would he want me to put me through that just to please himself. shouldn't he want me to enjoy sex as well?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:12 PM on Dec. 10, 2008 in Relationships
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If you haven't straight up told him how much you don't like it, try not to be mad at him, because he is obviously clueless. If you tell him you hate it and it hurts you, and he still wants you to do it - that's when you should be mad/resentful!
Whatever you do, don't consent to it again if you don't want it...I know it's hard refuse the person you love something they want, but if you don't, you'll have no one to resent but yourself...
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