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My bf lives with me and he only pays 150 a month

do you think i should raise the rent?

 
lizzybee44

Asked by lizzybee44 at 12:56 AM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • He should be paying for anything he ADDS onto your expenses. Food,water,utilities. Your mortgage is the same whether or not he lives there.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 12:57 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • HE'S got himself a sugar mama doesn't he ? as long as you allow it he will keep taking.
    gwen20

    Answer by gwen20 at 1:03 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • yup
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:57 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • yes, it should be half and half.
    cassie_kellison

    Answer by cassie_kellison at 1:06 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • hell yes ! unless the rent is $300......... does he contribute to groceries utilities, any shopping sprees ?
    gwen20

    Answer by gwen20 at 12:58 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • That's up to you. Do you feel like he does enough elsewhere in the relationship and is he grateful for all you do?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:01 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • Yes. I would charge half the mortgage.
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 1:03 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • uh YEAH..!!! Unless he does all the housework... and raising of the kids it should be 50/50 or at the very least you should both pitch in and equal percentage of your income.. 25% each a week rent.
    xxhazeldovexx

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:53 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • About a year ago i would have answered 'yes, he should pay half.' I had the same problem. I could not (i thought & peoples comments) afford my bf. Now that my bf is gone to another country and cant come back, we're both  very sad and upset over it. Now i realize how much i love him and how much he helped me in other ways. Such as; he always helped me clean, he cooked often, he was great in bed and he made me feel like a sexy momma! If i had another chance i would take what he gave me in cash because all the other things he did for me was priceless!

    dmr73059

    Answer by dmr73059 at 2:14 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • the mortgage is in the thousands. he pitches in for groceries occasionally
    lizzybee44

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 12:59 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

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