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Would u have done this?

The other evening me and my dh went to my sd graduation ceremony afterwards we took lots of pics well her mom was there we are ok with each other but I'd rather her keep her distance she is mean to my dh anyway my idea was to take a pic of my dh and her with their dd I thought my sd would like that so I was thinking of her I just put my feelings aside for the occasion.
Was that weird of me?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:55 AM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • no i'm sure your SD really likes that you would do that for her

    Answer by CEWarsop at 2:59 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • Great idea she will love it.

    Answer by mamaofficer at 3:08 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I think that was great that you did that!

    Answer by ILoveCade at 3:09 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I think that was pretty cool of you.

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 3:11 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • no,that was nice of you,making the night special for step daughter.

    Answer by RobinChristine at 5:14 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I would talk to sd about it and your hubby I am sure he might feel unconformable with the idea. I am sure that my step kids wouldn't want it done. so like I said it's a matter of what the wishes of the kid is. I've done a lot of things on behalf of the kids. just don't expect brownie points with sd if you do take it. They are wont show any sings of appreciation for it. so it has to be something you are ok with seeing around your house if your sd wants to place it in her room.
    Maybe you can do a few different photos' one with them and one with you in it.

    Answer by amanda_23 at 6:04 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • That was awesome! You put first who really mattered, your SD!

    Answer by kgrine at 8:30 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I think that was very big of you. :)

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 8:46 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • You are a very special person to do this. Too bad more step families aren't like you/tours.


    Answer by JSD24 at 10:00 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • Not Weird at all.. when my kids graduated; i took pictures with them & their Dad- your SD will appreciate you thinking so much about her feelings- you are a great Step- Mom:)


    Answer by daisyb at 2:28 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

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