To start off I have been married for almost 4 years .Well in the begainning of our marriage my husband cheated on me with his daughter mom. I would think after 3 years I would be able to get over it and I guess I could if we didn't have to see her every other weekend.Everytime we see her the hurt comes back and I start getting mad at my husband.Don't get me wrong he is a great father and husband but I feel if he loved like he says he would have never went back to her..Tell me what you would have done
Answer by amanda_23 at 6:05 AM on Jun. 7, 2011
I think that he made a huge mistake that he can never take back and the person he hurt most is YOU! I don't think a person ever gets over the feeling of betrayal but they learn how to live with it. Many marriages do make it but it may take counseling. If you love this man then your going to have to find a way to get past the pain and not let it consume you and it takes time ! He's moved on from it and you haven't, your the unfortunate one that gets to live with the pain. Do you and your family a favor, get counseling so that you can get on with the life that you deserve!
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