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Would you have marry someone you were not atrracted too if he was a good husband, father and provider?

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Asked by 35yoamom at 9:54 AM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • What is on the inside is what counts.

    Answer by babygirl0782 at 9:56 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • Yep, but luckily my husband is really handsome and sexy ;)

    Answer by lowencope at 9:58 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • If I loved him and could see myself spending my life with him, happily.

    Answer by momov4kids at 9:58 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I probably shouldn't answer this due to all the vote downs I will probably receive.. but I will be honest...

    I think attraction is a big part of a relationship. I couldn't marry someone I wasn't attracted to.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 10:00 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I couldn't do it...the whole it;s the inside that matters is bull when you have to look at the man and have sex with the man if your not attracted your not going to be happy.

    Answer by happymama02 at 10:03 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I couldn't marry someone I wasn't attracted to either, but I didn't date men that wouldn't have been good husbands, fathers and providers even if I was attracted to them. It's an all or nothing deal with me!

    Answer by missanc at 10:04 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • @SuperrMommy so if you marry this hot sexy ass guy and he get in an accident and his face is scarred for life, then what? You divorce him and move on to the next one?

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:05 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • Of course. It's no different than a blind person getting married--they can't see who they are in love with. You fall in love with a personality, not with looks.

    Answer by laird6372 at 10:05 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • IDK, I have been in relationships where the guy was VERY attractive and they were terrible to me. I look at what they are doing now and its like... Eww who wants to live like that?!

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 10:06 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • yup

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:11 AM on Jun. 7, 2011

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