My husband wants to have sex everyday. Sometimes I don't mind but there is no foreplay. He also wants it when I'm already asleep n I wake up in a bad mood bcuz when he is doing it I just want to smack him.
I was abused as a lil girl and sometimes it feels like that's what im going thru again. I luv my husband I just can't stand that if I don't give it to him then I must be giving it to someone else. He isn't physically abusive but it feels like he is mind f@$%ing me. Im I the only one who goes thru this s#%*????
Asked by Anonymous at 10:07 AM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 1:42 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
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Answer by SuperrMommyy at 10:10 AM on Jun. 7, 2011
Is he the one telling you if you don't do it with him, then you must be doing it with someone else?......cause that's mental abuse. That's guilting you into doing something your not comfortable with. Does he know you were abused as a child? If not, you need to tell him and work through it. If so, then you both need to go to counselling. His respect for you needs to increase and you have some emotional issues to work through. When you do, you will be healthy for each other.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:15 AM on Jun. 7, 2011
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