My DH and I were arguing and it got ugly. I am overweight, and he was trying to put some type of green in my noodles. I hate soup to begin with, and noodles were the only thing around. I HATE veggies in my noodles. I will eat them on the side raw, but not in it. He kept arguing with me. Then he told me he hopes I hurry up and die so it will just get over then. Why prolong it. He told me to go out and get some fast food so help speed it up.
I thought this was completely uncalled for. I got so mad I threw it down the sink. Then I got yelled at for that. He said I shouldn't eat at all because I am not grateful for it. Yet he forgets he throughout a whole meal one day for 4 people because he was throwing a fit. I don't he really cares about me, if he did, he wouldn't have told me to hurry up and die.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:28 PM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by fiatpax at 10:18 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Answer by emmyandlisa at 8:32 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Sounds like there are several issues that need to be talked about and worked through. I'd list them and start the conversation soon. Come to some agreement on what will be acceptable and respectful, because there is definitely a lack of both in this relationship. Good Luck
Answer by meooma at 8:34 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Answer by Princess_s21 at 8:36 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Answer by attap5 at 8:36 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Sometimes in arguments we say things we often don;t mean or that we know will be hurtful..If he didnt;t care about you he wouldnt;t argue with you over eating veggies. He would just let you eat whatever you wanted and if it's the fact your overweight and he doesn't like it personally he would have made a jab that way it sounds like he cares about you and said some hurtful things...when everything has calmed down let him know how much he hurt you.
Answer by happymama02 at 8:44 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Answer by SMG1120 at 8:34 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Answer by Kirs at 8:43 PM on Jun. 7, 2011
Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 9:31 PM on Jun. 7, 2011