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4th or 5th grade "graduation" - silly or not?

I have a really hard time w/ the whole "graduation" thing from elementary school. Yes, acknowledge that the kids are moving on, but it has just all gotten to be too much. I just don't think moving from one elementary grade to another should be treated like a graduation.


Asked by sweetpotato418 at 9:21 PM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • Graduation at those levels only takes away from the ones that really mean something ... like high school or college.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:07 AM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • If they are graduating from one school to another, why not celebrate?

    Answer by mompam at 9:23 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I am PRO those types of "graduations" gives the children a sense of accomplishment and love. Shows them they DID IT and should be proud of themselves. And shows them if you work hard you are rewarded...:) I love it!

    Answer by MissyNewMama at 9:24 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I've always felt that way too. I guess its more about "commencement" which by definition means the start of something.

    Answer by Mel_in_PHX at 9:24 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I am looking forward to my son's 5th grade graduation. It is something that will be a huge accomplishment for him. He has worked very hard over the past several years. It is a milestone that is worth celebrating for us.

    Answer by layh41407 at 9:24 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • They don't do it here, but I think it would be kind of cute. Just some special little thing to say congratualtions on a job well done.

    Answer by meooma at 9:24 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I agree with meooma

    Answer by kyheavensmom at 9:25 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I think acknowledging the promotions are nice but a "graduation" with caps and gowns for anything other than high school and college is a bit over board.

    I think a VERY modest acknowledgement/celebration is fine.


    Answer by Anonymous at 9:26 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • i think it's cute. actually, our preschool just had one last week

    Answer by armywife43 at 9:29 PM on Jun. 7, 2011

  • I see nothing wrong with a 'step up day' but the huge ceremonies are a little silly. When my DS graduated from Pre-K I had to by him a $30 gown! WHAT? Plus he had to have black dress shoes and black or navy dress pants and a collared shirt- which I also had to buy. His graduation from preschool cost me like $60! lol. A cute little play and paper hats would have been sufficient imo.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 9:34 PM on Jun. 7, 2011