a year ago i found out my s/o had multiple affairs, we still lived together but were separated emotionally because of all the pain he caused. i am willing to try make this relationship work by giving him a 2nd chance but i have a few rules. on his facebook page he has female friends that i want deleted, i don't care if they are in another state, one in particular is an ex gf of his (he has known her years before he met me) so he didn't cheat on me with her BUT they have no kids together so there is no damn reason to keep in touch with her imo. i want him to delete all his female friends and call that ex and let her know he is trying to rebuild his relationship with me and I AM NOT COMFORTABLE with their friendship period. she has her husband and kids, he has me. she needs to be a thing of the past. i want me and my s/o to move on with a clean slate. am i being unfair ?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:33 PM on Jun. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Your not being unreasonable but your also not thinking straight. You shouldn't have to go through all that trouble if you trusted your SO. If he is going to cheat he is going to cheat and it doesn't matter if you delete all the girls on his FB. You don't trust this man, are you sure you still love him, or are you in love with the idea of what the two of you can be. Every relationship is work, but yours seems like it might be overtime.
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