I have never in my life met someone who tries so hard to get attention !
She is now pregnant and i seriously pray she isn't one of those people who would hurt the baby just for more attention!
We knew it was bad when we first met her, you couldn't carry on a simple conversation with her, because she would have to interupt you to say something about herself, it was also very easy to tell she was lying, about almost everything she said.
Within the first week of meeting her, she told us all about how her mom molested her and now she has all of these medical problems " down there" because of it.... Well we later found out through other family members of hers that never happened, she never even started saying anything about that until she got caught having sex at 15 and started telling people the reason she wanted to have sex was because her mom did this... her mother has several other children, none of them believe it and all hate her for saying this stuff ... She has also tried to say the same thing about her dad, her aunt ( who she still goes to visit) and her grandpa... She also says her grandma beat her up ( but this is the grandma she plans on letting take care of the baby)
She also told us she had a hesterectomy, after my mom said she had one... and yet here she is - PREGNANT.
She has had every diese known to man, including several types of cancer... but yet recently said she hasnt been to the DR. in years and was mad that she now has to pay the government money so she can go to the baby DR. ( not sure what she means by this, but she is getting the medical card.. so she had to mean the govt. is paying for her visit?)
BUT we are trying very hard to deal with her because she is carrying my niece or nephew ( we do know for sure she is pregnant ) ... but now she is even worse...
She will send me these depressing messages on facebook sounding as if she wants to kill herself, and then i will say something like you need to talk to me, or can I help you, etc... and she will go " no i dont want to bug you" ..
And now the worst thing she is doing is every week she tells my brother ( who is very excited about the baby) that she thinks she is going to have a miscarriage because of all the stress she has in her life ( I am not sure what stress comes from literally sitting on the couch eating all day -- everytime we stop by this is exactlly what she is doing, she will be laying on the couch with food and wrappers all around her ) ....
I just do not know how to deal with her anymore !
Asked by Anonymous at 10:50 AM on Jun. 8, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by gemgem at 10:53 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by DJsMommy610 at 10:54 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by 1Angeland3Girls at 10:55 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by pookiekins34 at 10:55 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 10:56 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Always talking about a miscarriage would make me suspicious that she might not really be pregnant. Did she have a sonogram??
Have to agree with gemgem yet again today... document everything dates and times please and print screens too. You may need it in the future.
Answer by sipn_mom at 11:03 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by Shanna84 at 11:04 AM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by jmpj8107 at 11:46 AM on Jun. 8, 2011