My mom and my aunt had a family issue over 35 years ago. Now that both spouses have passed , just over two months ago, my aunt just told my mom what do you want to do go back to 35 years ago when we did not talk for 5 years? My aunt's son would be very cold towards my mom and his wife was always so snobby to her! When my uncle got sick we went to visit him in the hospital from two hours away. My cousin's wife never went to visit my father in the hospital and he was 10 mins away. She never called or sent cards either. The reason because when my cousin's fatherinlaw that never even said helloto us at parties was sick 15 years ago, we never went to the hospital. Just logic that does nto compare to a blood uncle that we saw every holiday and weekend comparing to her aloof, absent stranger in everyone's eyes that even did not invite me to my cousin's wedding. I was 18 and he said I was considered a minor...So now my aunt jumped into their side and is liek a complete puppet. She used to hate her dil now she is just doing it so she could see her grandchildren. My brother did not invite this infamous cousin to his daughter's graduation party so now my aunt is not attending.Then she made the comment we are going back to 35 years ago. What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:12 AM on Jun. 8, 2011 in Relationships
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