Let me preface with I really am not a total bitch. My ex husband didnt pay child support for a number of years and has a felony flagrant non support on his record. Now he has a job, he is remarried, has a new family and pretends our kids dont exist. I think if he didnt pay child support he might be able to convince himself of it completely. The only times he does pay them any attention is to get photos of the grandkids (who hes only met at biirth mind you) to put on his desk to show people.
So my dd is 22 and I have never asked her to do "detective" work for me. She just gets upset and everything with her dad, and who can blame her I guess? He is on her FB and he announced he got a substantial raise. She told me I need to take him back to child support court and get a raise. The thing is our youngest turns 18 in July. I will continue to get support until he is 19, possibly 21. We are in the process of the length he will pay right now. Do you think I should ask for a raise or just leave it? I dont know what to do. I honestly can give a crap about him.
Yes I can use the money because our son is going to college so that money can be used there, but I can also do it on my own with just my current husband and my help. My current husband has raised son I get child support for since he was 7. My son doesnt even count his biodad as dad.
Answer by AmaliaD at 1:32 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
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