For most new moms it has nothing to do with a decline in your sex drive. It has to do with switching from "sex kitten mode" into "mommy mode". Body changes, lack of sleep, and keeping up with family and baby needs all interfere with the normal sex routine. Also, some guys begin to view you in a motherly way, and they feel a little weird doing all those filthy naughty things to the mother of their children!
Schedule a date night, and stick to it. Come hell or high water, this is sex night and there are NO excuses! Getting back into a routine is the first step. The more you have sex, the more you'll want sex.
at 1:05 PM on Jun. 8, 2011