My brothers girlfriend is driving me crazy ! She is pregnant with her first baby ( and I have 2 ) she will ask me pregnancy questions but then when i tell her the answer she always says " oh no, that going to happen to me" and then just disagrees with everything i say , even if I say an actual fact, she will argue about it until she is blue in the face because " thats not what she heard" ... For example, her doctor told her they couldnt see the gender at her 18 week ultrasound ( the baby was turned the wrong way ) ... so of course than meant NO ONE , EVER has found out the gender before then. ( which means I am lying that I found out both of mine at 16 weeks ).. also even though she has had 5 ultrasounds ( 3 my brother had to pay out of pocket for) because she just knows she is having twins and the other is hiding, because she is so huge ( she is actually pretty small and her doctor has told her several times that 100% sure there is only 1 baby)
Today I have gotten several texts like usual throughout the day ( now I only answer a few ) ... but she is arguing with me because she believes her due date IS the say the baby will come... I tried to tell her only a small percent of people actually have the baby on the due date...and since she is already have blood pressure problems, she will probably have her a little sooner... well that is when hell breaks loose and she goes on and on about how she honestly thinks the baby will be like 2 weeks late... I said usually they will want to induce you because going that much over can also cause problems, then she says " no my mom had me at 43 weeks and I was better off then " ( i forgot to mention she is also a constant liar---- she told us before she was a real early preemie as well, but I guess she forgot that ) ....
and now she is still sending text after text telling me there is no way she will have this baby before her due date ( in september).. and even though I have said " ok ok " ... she still continues to send them...
I cannot wait until that baby comes so maybe I can get some peace !
Asked by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Jun. 8, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by dullscissors at 3:12 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by kimberlyinberea at 3:13 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by Lucky209 at 3:14 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by mrsmom110 at 3:15 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
Stop engaging her in conversation. Just nod your head and say okay...really...good for you, or some other very general non committal response.
Answer by meooma at 3:17 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
Answer by Kirs at 3:17 PM on Jun. 8, 2011
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Answer by sweetsone at 7:37 PM on Jun. 8, 2011