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Anyone ever been "the mistress"? adult content

Why? How did it happen?


Asked by Anonymous at 4:24 PM on Jun. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I dated married guys twice and dropped them the minute I found out. One even had the nerve to say he wanted me to befriend his wife, so she would know someone when she moved to our city. Um, no thanks. So glad I'm past the dating stage.

    Answer by balagan_imma at 4:43 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • Well, I don't know if I would call myself a mistress. We weren't in love.
    But I was the young intern and he was my sexy boss. It was fun.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:26 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • just happened and I ended it after a year.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:28 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • He was unhappy in his marrage and I was a young two-faced skank.

    Answer by lil_momma_vdv at 4:31 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • i dated a guy
    THEN found out he was married
    i ended it
    does that count

    i did not know he was married, i had no clue until a friend told me she heard he was, i asked him-he could not answer the question-that was a yes to me, i did not know who his wife was = if i had i might have told her what he was up to

    Answer by fiatpax at 4:35 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • I have dated a married guy. It was just for sex/attention, I knew he wasn't going to leave his wife and I didn't want him to. Was younger and dumber, I've grown up since then.

    Answer by Telephus44 at 4:41 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • i play mistress for my SO :)
    i say your wifes on vacation, better love me good before she gets back!
    its pretty naughty and gives him a sense of being bad!
    which is ok to imagine, just not to actually do it!

    Answer by lizzybee44 at 8:33 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • Yep. I say that I stole him from his wife of 18 years. He'll tell you he came along willingly.

    When you look at the reality of it, he married the girl next door- literally. Their very Christian parents pressured them to get married after they found out that they had sex at the age of 18. They were in marriage counseling for 12 of the 18 years (I can't even comprehend how much that costs!?!) I wasn't the "kept woman" type or anything We were extra flirty friends. He said he was falling for me, I said if he wanted me had to leave her, and he packed up the next day! 8 years later, still happy!

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:37 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • I have never been a mistress or an affair partner.

    To me personally. Mistress holds a different connotation than someone who is just simply just having a relationship with a married man.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:54 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • If you are thinking about it...just remember you will always be

    Second Fiddle..

    Answer by Dannee at 9:19 PM on Jun. 8, 2011