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i have already got six kids ,and the guy that i am with is the father of my last two kids ,so all together he has 3 boys ,i am wondering would u think it would be wise to try for a daughter with him because he doesnt have any girls please help me out here

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mummybreni

Asked by mummybreni at 6:40 PM on Dec. 10, 2008 in Relationships

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  • That's a lot of kids, can you afford 7?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:41 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • Have a BABY because you want a BABY. Dont do it just for the sex. Are you gonna be ok with another boy if thats what happens???? Take that into consideration. But if you "want" a girl and dont care what happens then go for it!! GL
    Steph319

    Answer by Steph319 at 6:44 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • i agree with the first two answers... if you can afford 7 and if you gonna be ok with the fact that it could be a boy again, then go for it. :)
    m.robertson811

    Answer by m.robertson811 at 6:47 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • If you can afford the TIME and Expense of yet another child then go for it. If your going to be adding to the food stamp and welfare check $ then NO 6 kids is ALLOT of kids considering most people have an average of only 2 kids and China only allows women to have 1 child. Uterus.....It's NOT a clown car!
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 6:56 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • I don't think it's worth it frankly.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:19 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • It's possible you two could have a boy or a girl. If you are OK with the fact that it might end up another boy and you can afford all those kids then go ahead.
    Geminus

    Answer by Geminus at 7:19 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • wow thats alot of kids. The thing is makin sure yall can afford it.
    Lucky120

    Answer by Lucky120 at 7:20 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • Don't have babies just to fill some sort of a quota. If you want another child, and will love him/her regardless of the sex, then go for it. However, if you're just doing it because he "deserves" a girl, then that's not the right reason. I'm the third of 7 children and I loved having a big family, but my parents weren't trying to get certain genders, they just felt like their optimal family size was bigger than what they had.
    degsyuna

    Answer by degsyuna at 7:27 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • Having another baby just to try for a girl will get you another boy!......It's Murphy's Law!
    happy2bme7

    Answer by happy2bme7 at 7:34 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • can you afford another one?? do you both want another baby?? will you be upset if it's another boy and not a girl,, think of your options and carefully discuss it with your husband,,,, and good luck and god bless,let us know,,,,
    seexxymama4u2me

    Answer by seexxymama4u2me at 7:38 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

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