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Has your husband ever had an affair?

Did you stay with him or send him packing?


Asked by nybor48 at 5:23 PM on Jun. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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  • My husband cheated on me 17 years ago, however he did not/has not had an affair.. He had a one night stand.

    Yes we are still together, married 26 years now. Reconciling took a year. Once reconciling happened he moved back in (he moved into another apartment in the same building so that we could work on "us" and he could see our son every day. Once he moved back in, the actual rebuilding of our marriage began, which took a few years to accomplish. Our marriage was destroyed, not only by his one night stand but also by the 2 of us for a few years before that catalyst happened. We chose to completely rebuild, to start all over and build a new relationship. Which I personally feel is the only way a marriage can truly survive and thrive after infidelity. Through it all we both became better people and in turn better spouses.

    I have no regrets when it comes to my choice to give my husband , our marriage, a 2nd chance.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:34 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • Yes, and Yes, I stayed. Been togther 13yrs now and stronger than ever!

    Answer by ShelbysHope76 at 5:26 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • He hasn't. I've stayed with him.

    Answer by Dr.Donna at 5:23 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • He hasn't, but if he did, he would be out of my house

    Answer by fallnangel93 at 5:24 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • No. First thought is I would send him packing, but I've seriously thought about it lately and I'm not so sure. But I don't have to worry because he would never do that!

    Answer by missanc at 5:24 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • He hasn't, but if he did....he would not be allowed back in the house.


    Answer by NAT24ROXY24 at 5:26 PM on Jun. 8, 2011


    Answer by rinamomof2 at 5:24 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • Yes. I stayed with him for a few years but even after counseling he couldn't keep it in his pants even though I was giving it to him all the time. He just enjoyed chasing women so I left. I might add that he ended up being abusive too so it wasn't just the cheating that made me leave.

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:30 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • I certainly hope he's never had a affair!

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 5:49 PM on Jun. 8, 2011

  • No

    Answer by dlee620 at 5:56 PM on Jun. 8, 2011