I am 26 weeks pregnant with my boyfriends baby. Well we recently got our own place together and I have a son from a previous marriage. Anyways he is always griping at me and blaming everything on me. Like we went to the gas station and I got some scratch offs bc I wanted to win some money and I lostmy money which was only 20 so he started to play and lost his which I didnt tell him to do and didnt know he was going to so he blamed it on me. and he has been a jerk to me. I asked him to do some dishes for me bc my back was hurting and he didnt he said I have to go to work and come home to clean , but he hardly ever cleans!! he is a slob!!! leaves his clothes every where. Whats it guna hurt him to help me a little bc my back is always hurting me. I'm kinda nervous that he might try to take the baby when I have it bc he is always saying oh if you leave me I'll just take the baby.
Also we just had an arguement about how he tells everything I tell him not to and he said "I didnt promise I wouldnt tell anyone" but he did and he is always saying oh I dont know if that baby is mine and he just said he is going to take me to court for the baby and that my ex is going to take my son away and he is always saying hurtful things to me like how my family is always talking about me and said they dont love me. I feel like I have no one to talk to or have no family and just feel so hurt. He tells me to get a job but who is guna hire me this far along pregnant?! and not only that who woud even watch the kids while I work after I have the baby? my mom lives walking distance but she never answers for me and I dont trust a day care or anyone I dont know and def wouldnt leave my kids. Then he always ends up saying hes sorry but if hes sorry then why does he keep saying these things? I cant keep dealing with this and feeling hurt from the things he says all the time but I wouldnt have any where to go bc if I stayed with my mom , her and her bf would want all the money I get for child support for their bills and they always used me in the past with bills and made me pay everything and only call if they need something. I dont know what to do?!
Asked by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Jun. 8, 2011 in Relationships
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