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So whats irritating you today?

im just annoyed by people who think they are better than other people because they put their career first before having a family, as if those who had a family first then the career and nice house. had an high school class mate add me on Fb, and she acting all high and mighty cause she "did things the right way" by now having her first baby in her 30s and making fun of ppl who has c-section scars and a pouch after their pregnancy. ( i never had a csection myself and i was one of the lucky ones who didnt gain a whole of weight while pg) not saying those who had a family first did it the right way...we all have our own right way. i just hate it when people feel the need to put down ppl cause they are on a different path.


Asked by Anonymous at 1:30 AM on Jun. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I got pregnant before I got married, plus I'm 20, I get dirty looks all the time. Just because I'm young and pregnant. What people don't realize though, I went to college, and so did my husband. We were planning on getting married anyway, we just got pregnant first. Nothing wrong with it, shit just happens. I have to have a c-section due to my cervix being tilted, plus the baby is breach, and really huge, with very little chance of turning, just because someone has a c-section doesn't mean they're anything less than human and so what if I have a scar. I'm a mother, I don't have time to worry about having a scar, geez. Not like I'm going to be struttin' around in a bikini anyway, I'll be wearing whats comfortable and fits so I can keep up with my kid. Your friend just sounds like a snobby bitch. I'd have deleted her already.

    Answer by monstersmommy20 at 1:44 AM on Jun. 9, 2011

  • I don't think there's a right or wrong way to do it if u have a plan stick by it but a lot for change too your friend is prolly proud of herself and that's ok but she became a shitty person by talking crap about others some people can't be happy for others its sad

    Answer by rinamomof2 at 8:14 AM on Jun. 9, 2011

  • Eh I hate superiority complexes. I guess it's not there fault though hun some can't help but be a b*tch.

    Answer by hot-mama86 at 4:12 AM on Jun. 9, 2011

  • I got pregnant before i got married. i was married at 19 and first baby. now all of my kids (3) are adults youngest just turned 21 the oldest is 31 and i am still 'young' 51yrs. also,my children have grandparents in their lives. with people waiting until 30's to start family these children may not have grandparents.

    Answer by dmr73059 at 4:48 AM on Jun. 9, 2011