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People think I am crazy..... I have 3 girls am I insane to try for #4 hopeing for a boy?

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Asked by ksunflower2001 at 9:02 PM on Dec. 10, 2008 in Trying to Conceive

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  • no my dad got stuck with 4 girls before he got his boy good luck

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 9:04 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • not totally insane :) at least if you don't mind if it's a girl

    it could be possible that your hubby does not carry the sperm required to make a boy. it's all up to his sperm's genetic make up as to if it's a boy or girl.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:04 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • That's perfectly okay if you know you can handle another little munchkin or if your okay with the chance of having girl #4. Me though? Ha! I'm fearing a #2!

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:09 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • To try to have a baby is not insane if you are able to support it :-) I have three girls and my youngest is a boy, but I didn't try it that way... just happened. I have a friend that has three girls, is on IUD till they're more stable to try for a fourth... they're hoping for a boy too. I have a different friend that has four boys and her youngest is a girl, and she did try for that. So no I don't think you're insane, but I do think you shouldn't get too upset if you end up with another girl... I had a girl name picked out for my son in all anticipation that he'd be a she, hehe.


    Answer by Knightquester at 9:09 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • I know one family that has had 6 girls. Every time after the first they were hoping for a boy, but it just doesn't look like they can have one. They love their little girls though! Good luck!

    Answer by proud_mommy_87 at 9:45 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • im currently prego with baby number 11 i had 3 sets of twins though so i havent "been prego" 11 times just have 11 kids, anyways its up to you after all it is your body!

    Answer by mamaellie1979 at 10:01 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • People can not answer this in total because they are not aware of your whole story. Because of your financial situation and living situation, I would say it would be very foolish to be trying for a child right now. But ultimately, no matter what the world thinks, that is between you two.

    Answer by MyBelovedOnes at 10:51 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • I don't think your insane at all! I have 3 kiddos (2 boys and a girl) and we are trying for a fourth. Good luck with what ever you decide!

    Answer by my_3 at 11:45 PM on Dec. 10, 2008

  • My cousin has 3 boys. She just found out she is finally having a girl!!! Your not insane. I would do it to!

    Answer by Marah2008 at 5:25 AM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • as some others said as long as you dont mind that you might have another girl! my DH had a girl with his ex-wife and i have had 2 boys but he wants another girl so we are gonna try in a year or so ..... GOOD LUCK

    Answer by lonelymommyof2 at 6:15 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

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