i know a friend of mind just put it in writing that she has full custody all that good stuff of her child and i was thinking of doing this for legal issues just in case. my dd father is in a different state and has no visitations in writing ect. and basically i never went to court to do all that custody visitation because truthfully i do not want her back and for between states she is too young right now. anyways, he has threatened to just take her and i was like well if you really wanted to do anything you would of done it already. i know its been so long but i just been thinking alot about making a will ect and if i do not have legal custody i can not legally make a will with her in it and name who i want her to be with. not that i am dying but you never know what might happen. i just don;t want it to ever go to court and him be able to get her on the grouds that we both have the same rights. i have raised her for 2yrs and he has seen her a handful of times and does not make an effort. you can say all your want that he is her father blah blah blah. but dna does not make a father. anyways, so he is visiting soon and i was thinking of writing a document and getting him to sign it so this way when it goes to be notarized his signature is on it and he can't fight it if anything would to happen.
what do you all think?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:25 PM on Jun. 9, 2011 in General Parenting
Answer by andrea96 at 2:51 PM on Jun. 9, 2011
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