What would you do?
My soon to be ex husband moved out of my home, mine before the short 6 month marriage. At that time he left his key. Two weeks ago I was on vacation and came home to find he had come into my home while I was away and left yet another (unknown to me) key along with a 10 page letter describing what he saw as all of my faults. I later discovered he took, at some point in the last couple weeks, my engagement ring. I am considering filing a police report and getting a restraining order. I had to end the relationship because of fear of his narcissistic, enraged personality. I spent the weekend he moved out at my parents because I was fearful of how he would react.
Here's the problem. He is a police captain. I do not wish to cause him problems at work but I would think he would know better than anyone that is behavior crossed the line. Leading up to the separation he was threatening, jealous of everyone including my children and family, he manipulated me with suicide threats, and basically just made my life miserable. I was forced to start therapy for the extreme anxiety his actions caused me.
Should I file the police report and get the restraining order?
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