I have known this guy friend for 15 years and for 15 years we had beat around the bush about being exclusive and being a "something" more than friends. I mean omg folks thought we were married before cause we know each others quirks. So back in March we decide to start dating (and I did nothing more than kiss and hold hands for the record), about the middle of April he got dinged by the IRS for what he owes we had already talked about it. Well when it came down to them taking his bank account he freaked which is understandable. I was talking to him on FB and I offered suggestions and such. He got quiet for like 15 mins or so and I asked if he was ok. "I AM FINE TY!" and logged off. Didn't think anything more of it and went to FB message him about going to lake or something stupid to find out he had be-friended me. The thing that bugs the crap out of me the most is I have just recently lost a friend due to death and came over to his house after the funeral before this all went down. He knows I have lost 3 friends to death this past 1 1/2. I was at loss for a bit because he always the person who shoulder I would cry on or vent and such and now nothing. Who does something like that!?!? I mean considering I know he has mental issues off and on of thinking people are out to get him and such (no he doesn't do drugs) and I was willing to go to his therapy sessions with him because he asked if he did that would I come with him. I am at a loss surprised it still bugs me but at least I can talk about it without bawling my eyes out now. I had already previously told him if we ever didn't work out relationship wise I would always be his best friend.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:09 AM on Jun. 10, 2011
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