My 3 year old son Haiden is having some major issues. And i don't know any ways to help him or punish him.
when i tell him something and he doesn't want to do it, he tells me no mom u do it. Like example he is potty trained and i know he can pull up and down his own pants but recently he doesn't want to pull them down.And when he knows i am busy and can't help him he screams at me. I tell him u know Haiden ur going to school in a couple of months and they are not going to help u pull up and down ur pants. He says so u do it mommy.
Then when i am teaching him how to pedel his bike he gets mad and says i can't do it, i not good at it. He is stubborn and wants it to go his way and thats it.
Then when we played soccer together with his friend Dan, Haiden is a good soccer player for only 3 years old. But he fell into the tree and got hurt. He ran off and i followed him. He said i am not good at bikes, i am not good at soccer. I told him Haiden ur a very good soccer player, and lots of players get hurt. He said ok, and said as far as the bike it takes practice.
Then as his attitude when i tell him to be nice or eat or play nice or even share. He says i cant' so then i say well if u can't then i will take it away. And i do.
He bad mouths me too. He tells me to shut up, that i am mean to him. and when i scold him and he cries he goes on the couch and says mommy hates me. I reassure him i don't hate him, i say i love u but ur being naughty so mommy had to punish u.
He is an older brother but he never started this behavior until he turned 3 years old on me
Asked by Anonymous at 10:32 AM on Jun. 10, 2011 in Preschoolers (3-4)
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