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Is it completly wrong to date someone when you are pregnant?

My boyfriend and I broke up and I met this guy and he is amazing he has a son and knows that I'm pregnant and still likes me. Would it be totally completly wrong to date him and see if it goes anywhere?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:57 AM on Jun. 10, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
    Shanna84

    Answer by Shanna84 at 11:57 AM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • Of course it isn't wrong. Date the guy he sounds nice.
    blackisbetter

    Answer by blackisbetter at 11:59 AM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • Nope. Not at all.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 11:59 AM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • If he didn't know you were pregnant, it would be a different story, but everyone is on the same page here.
    KateDinVA

    Answer by KateDinVA at 11:59 AM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • No,date him.
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 12:00 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • me personally, no I didn't. it just felt..... wrong.

    but this is a decision that only YOU can make for YOU
    KLBrown

    Answer by KLBrown at 12:10 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • No, it's not wrong. Just because you have a baby growing inside of you doesn't mean that you are a ruined woman and all romance goes out the window. I mean I was married and still doing the deed when I was pregnant, so what's wrong with dating? Nothing IMO
    lowencope

    Answer by lowencope at 12:13 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • I personally wouldnt do it. I would focus on myself and my baby. I don't need a man by my side at all times.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:15 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • I don't think it's wrong.
    ItsMe89

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 12:18 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • no not at all, i dated someone while i was pregnant with my son, i didnt find out till after i started dating him that i was pregnant. he continued to date me until his daughter who was 7 , started asking questions if he was going to be a dad and what not..
    i would just make sure that you and your ex will not get back together before you get serious with someone else now that you have a baby together.
    jenn660

    Answer by jenn660 at 12:26 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

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