Vote ups may not be a bad thing but the vote downs were put in place for no other reason than to save the work load of those who monitor the site. It may have been a good intention but what happened is people get voted down for honest an non-harmful OPINIONS. Not for being rule or giving false information as it was supposedly for. Am I taking vote downs personally? YES you know WHY? Because it is rude. It is the same as looking me in the eyes and telling me my opinion doesn't matter and I am wrong. It is a slap in the face. If I were to tell you I feed my kids bologna sandwiches to your face would you look at me and say something about it? NO- no way. But you sure feel safe to tell me I suck right here even though you know NOTHING about me and have no room to judge. You don't like it? Cool. No skin off my back but damn no need to be petty about it here in cyber space than you would be in real life. Get a grip so- called 'vote down fairy' You are rude, childish and I bet in 'real life' you are a very nice person but for some reason here the rules change and all of the sudden it is okay for you to push people for their opinions and/or basic statements based on no real knowledge at all.
Any one else feel me? This is not about what is and isn't allowed it's about respect.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:08 PM on Jun. 10, 2011 in About CafeMom
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:23 PM on Jun. 10, 2011
Hope you feel better now. Having a bad day here are you? I've just recently started going back over some of my answers and I was stunned that not everyone appreciated all my words of wisdom and experiences which I am so willing to share in my answers. I receive lots of vote downs..oh my goodness. Could it be my jaded view on men and relationships, could it be my almost uncontrollable sarcastic attitude, could it be my MMOTD, I'm not sure. But damn...I get a lot of them. Do I take it personal, no so much. It's text on a page, its anonymous, and its one (or in some of my cases more than one) person(s) opinion(s). I move on. Vote me down...its a game and I'm having some great fun!!! You should relax and enjoy CM.
Answer by meooma at 12:29 PM on Jun. 10, 2011
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