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Have you ever fantasized about another man w/ your husband?

One time my sister said she watched the movie Dear John and afterwards had sex with her husband 3 times in a row because she found the lead male character in it so hot.

Have you ever down something along those lines?
Do you find it healthy to do in a relationship?

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Asked by YellowBaby at 9:55 PM on Jun. 10, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • I think its healthy... i dont do it. im very happy and very attracted to my SO. but it doesnt hurt to do it. a lot of men and woman do it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:57 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • I've never done it....I'm super attracted to my husband and really just thinking about him is enough to get me going lol...I don't have to think of someone else

    Answer by Lucky209 at 10:05 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • No way that's wrong, I'm attracted to my DH he turns me on I don't need to fantasize about another man to turn me on, if I do then that means there is a problem in the relationship.


    Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 10:22 PM on Jun. 10, 2011

  • No I wouldn't. I would consider it mental adultery.

    Answer by Ruthmom802 at 11:54 PM on Jun. 10, 2011


    Answer by chrstny88 at 10:45 AM on Jun. 11, 2011

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