My ex and I have only been divorced for 2 months and were married for 14 years. I was stunned when I found out that he was having an affair. He stated that he had been unhappy for the last 10 years because I wouldn't go to a restaurant for a holiday rather than spending it with family. We would have the celebration at our home and both sides attened, so there was not an issue of anyone being left out. Our home was beautiful, clean, I worked, we both made good money, we have two wonderful children, we were intimate at a minimum of 3x per week and I cooked.
I found out that he was having an affair with an old girlfriend and that they had a 16 year old daughter together that he never mentioned. As a parting gift, he gave me a nice little STD that will never go away. Now he avoids paying his child support and I have been completly disrespected by his mistress as well. Now my son thinks she's cool and i HATE it! HELP!
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:54 PM on Jun. 10, 2011
Answer by bloomsr at 12:03 AM on Jun. 11, 2011
I'm Sorry that your husband did this to you & it will take time for your Heart to heal & move on with your life but, you are going to have more problems than you ever imagined if you do not change your attitude with your Son.. he is hurting too- that your family broke-up & he is probably just trying to adjust the best way he knows how- i think counseling would help you alot- Wishing you lots of luck!
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