tWill try to make this as short, as possable.
A family friend and I have been meeting for years. ( sense 2006) We've made out several times, oral sex.
We only got together every few month, examply before tonight the last time was Aug.
I'm a single mom, 3 kids & always on the go - no time for a boyfriend.
He has 2 jobs & a ranch, cattle, fences, etc to take care of.
Either way neither of us have time for each other, neverless anyone else.
Yes, we last got together last Aug but there were several text back and forth, when one of couldn't get away to meet.
We talked about having sex, several times. Talked about our past relationships, etc.
Tonight we got together and went all the way, to say I wasn't disappointed would be a lie & I'm afraid he feels the same. I hadn't had vaginal sex sense Aug 2006.
1. - Would it be strange if I blead? I have. 3 kids.
2. - He asked for his performance rating like 1 - 10. Id never been asked that before. He asked if he was a 1. I said no, so he said a 5. I said no. He commented about compairing him to the last guy I was with. I said its not like I have a huge pool to compair him too. So I told him he was a 7. Guys really ask that?
3. - he used hand sanitzer on himself when we were done, is that stange? And freaked a little about the blood. He asked if it was that time, I said no (its not) I told him, it was because it had been so long. I later texted him saying I'm sorry, it was that time of month & it started then.
4. - do you think, we made a mistake? That well get another chance at sex? I do care about him, he's been a friend for 20+ yrs. A family friend,so neither of our families know, that we've been seeing each other.
And yes, we used protection & hes 9 yrs older
What to do, what to do
Never had a guy ask those questions & never slept with a family friend, id known almost my entire life.
Only time will tell & no I don't regreat it
Maybe worried that he does. He did comment after that "this is crazy"
5. - what does that mean?
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