Sorry everyone but crazy times will drive me crazy if I don't get to vent it out...
So yesterday a girl I was friends with until a week ago decides to call me. She treated me like crap and I told her id no longer let her treat me that way. She knew my DH and I have been having problems lately, but she didnt know we've worked them out since I last talked to her. One week she's fussing me out at work bc she's angry I've excelled quicker and a manager told her shes unqualified for filling in some of the things I do at work. She's been wrkn there for over a year, she got me the job six months ago. I didn't mean to offend her by applying myself but i can't walk on tip toes at work bc someone else is jealous I'm good at my job... So one wk she's cussing me out and i politely (outside of work) ended our friendship. The next she calls me saying she saw my DH at a strip bar getting wasted with some other woman. The night in question... I was sitting next to him at home! I'm pretty upset shed make up something like that regardless of whether she hates me now or what, we were friends for six years. I didn't want to be friends but I still wanted to be on okay terms, again, we work together and have mutual friends. Anyway she does that, I go to work to find she's telling ppl I'm pregnant (I'm not), she's telling everyone at work I flipped on her when I never did, and shes told ppl at work that my DH has cheated on me when he hasn't. I'm so tired of explaining to work associates that I just dnt think those topics belong at work & they are untrue. Every day there's something new people confront me about and I'm trying so hard to avoid this kind of thing. Then last night to top everything off were incredibly short staffed, have 4 ppl to close our store and I work at a very large store... Then on my lunch break I see a man punch and push a pregnant lady who ended up having a miscarriage, and another guy pulled out a gun and I had to call 911... Yesterday was a long day. And I hope now that I've vented today may not he as bad... Whoo!
Answer by ThatBoysMom at 12:58 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 1:02 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
Answer by Rosehawk at 1:07 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
Answer by LeJane at 1:13 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
Answer by JacobsMom1969 at 1:15 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
I agree with rosehawk you need to go to the manager and let her know the situation even if they can't do anything about it because it seems to me that the more you ignore that woman the worse the rumors and lies are becoming and you don't want to loose your job over it it's bad enough there with out that added stress... be careful and stay safe and don't stoop to her level in the end everyone will see her for what she is....and it seems to me she is very jealous of you ... so don't share your personal life at work... with friends and watch your back!!!!
Answer by traren at 1:16 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
Answer by Raine2001 at 2:32 PM on Jun. 11, 2011
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Answer by lizzybee44 at 3:42 PM on Jun. 11, 2011