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Is there anything I can do? My guy like anan & it hurts
I want to be able to do this with him
Have you ever had a guy want to choke you while doing anan?
What about durning sex at all
I don't get the choking part
Some freak fantisy
What about being able to give head until he cums
I try and try but he seems to never go all the way
I stink at all this sex


Asked by Anonymous at 2:26 PM on Jun. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • he has to go real slow..massage it gently with his fingers for a while. The anal sphincter takes longer to adjust to a new size, but it certainly will stretch. If he uses lots of lube & maybe uses s small dildo back there first, he could prepare your bum in a way that it won't hurt when he enters back there. There is plenty of info about it online if yo do some research...

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:57 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Our back end was not meant for sex!!! That is gross!!! Also is will cause u medical problems,like a ruptured rectum!

    Answer by dancer at 2:29 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • About that choking part,that is dangerous! somebody could die!!!! Stop doing that!!

    Answer by dancer at 2:37 PM on Jun. 11, 2011


    Read that about the choking part. Some thing people are not comfortable with. Just tell him that you don't like it.

    Answer by babygirl0782 at 2:33 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • we don't do anal or choking. just not into that

    Answer by kmqw229 at 3:06 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • First off i would not be doing anal at all it hurts and is unnatural. Choking is out too.

    Answer by dusty1962 at 6:20 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • get really turned on, that way it won't hurt
    also, relax your body and
    it hurts less if he's penetrating rather than just leaving it in and not moving

    Answer by lizzybee44 at 3:04 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Anal sex and choking is not something I would do

    Answer by MizzMejia at 3:18 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • We do anal sometimes and sometimes it's great but sometimes it hurts so it helps to be really horny and have good lube while he EASES into you. I can't help w/ the choking. Not into that.

    Answer by dnmc1985 at 6:39 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Your sexuality is YOURS. Only do what YOU are comfortable with.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 1:20 AM on Jun. 13, 2011