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What do YOU consider cheating? adult content

Eveyone seems to define cheating differently. Is it watching porn? Is it a one time kiss? Is it a strictly sexual relationship with no emotions? Is it an emotional affair with no sex?is it getting sexually excited for someone else? Tell me how you define cheating.

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miabug

Asked by miabug at 2:57 PM on Jun. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • when one partner has some kind of strong feelings for tanother person & pursues that in some way, whether it be emotionally or physically.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 2:58 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Is it watching porn? NO
    Is it a one time kiss? YES
    Is it a strictly sexual relationship with no emotions? YES
    Is it an emotional affair with no sex? YES
    is it getting sexually excited for someone else? WITHOUT ACTING ON IT, NO
    Tell me how you define cheating. DOING ANYTHING YOU WOULDN'T WANT YOUR PARTNER DOING TO YOU EITHER BEHIND THEIR BACK OR IN FRONT OF THEIR FACE
    lizzybee44

    Answer by lizzybee44 at 3:01 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Doing anything that you would get upset to find out your partner was doing. Anything that makes you feel you have to hide or lie to your partner.
    Porn - no
    Kiss- yes
    sexual relationship -yes
    emotional affair - yes
    sexually excited for someone else - no, not if no acting on it was done.
    Bubbie0809

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 3:07 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • In the end to me it is all adultery and I will not tolerate it.

    momavanessa

    Answer by momavanessa at 3:10 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • All of it is cheating to me
    MizzMejia

    Answer by MizzMejia at 3:16 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • all of it is cheating in my opinion , except porn ,
    des11987

    Answer by des11987 at 3:19 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • I define cheating as attemping to date someone or touching, kissing someone. Everyone looks but as long as it goes no further. I hate a cheat
    dusty1962

    Answer by dusty1962 at 6:19 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • To me cheating is doing something behind your partners back that you wouldnt do in front of them.
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 7:51 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Porn- Not cheating but disrespectful
    Sexually excited for someone else- Not cheating
    Kissing- Cheating
    Sexual relations- Cheating

    I have another thing I want to add--
    Having a single profile on a swinger couple site--- Not cheating, but it shows they want to!! (Sorry, that one has happened to me :( )
    Kaylapoo

    Answer by Kaylapoo at 9:54 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Any intimate act : physical, emotional or mental (porn) that does NOT involve me as his partner.
    1lv2stks3nlz4ev

    Answer by 1lv2stks3nlz4ev at 1:49 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

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