Ive been dating him for 9 months now. almost 3 months in we found out i was pregnant. we've been living together since and he has a little drinking problem and he smokes cigarettes a lot. obviously being pregnant i don't drink and i never really liked cigarettes.
his drinking has gotten him in a lot of trouble before. when we first started dating he got arrested because of something he did while drunk(nothing to bad). and when he's tipsy or completely drunk he is kind of verbally abusive, and im scared he might get physical sometimes, he punches walls and hits himself when he gets really mad at me.
when he isn't drunk he's a completely different guy, he's sweet and amazing, and when we argue about anything he handles it how it should be handled and we talk it out.
we tried talking about his drinking, and he always says the same thing, he promises he'll quit or he says he'll only drink so many and only so often. but he always asks for one more beer one more beer. and he just keeps getting more bc if he asks me and i say no he get pissed or he does it anyway.
I dont really know what to do. lately he's been better but i don't think it's going to last. and our baby is due in august. i love him to death he is my world,
how can we work this out? what is a good substitution for beer?
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