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PLEASEEEE no drama

I work nights at a resturaunt and recently me and one of the managers have been flirting. hes married... and we have even made plans to hang out next weekend, he says he doesnt want to be with his wife and all that usual stuff but i really want to for some reason even though i know the chances are slim that he will leave his wife for me an i dont really care if he does or not. also im only 19 and hes 37 but for some reason i just cant help it!!!!! im also in a relationship of 5 years.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on Jun. 11, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (69)
  • And your question is????

    Answer by older at 8:34 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • – collapse
    he's probably telling you he doesn't wanna be with his wife because he's scared he'll fall too hard for you.
    be yourself, but somewhat hard to get and it'll go far. don't let him bat you around like some young dumb thing.

    Answer by sherlokke at 8:34 PM on Jun. 11, 2011 (hidden) + expand

  • i hope you get caught..and later on in life when you find someone you truely love i pray he does you the same exact way...karma can be a horrible thing..also have you ever wondered why he is interested i would bet money its just to prove he can sack a younger girl..

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:35 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • dont play with fire unless you want to get burnt

    Answer by letstalk747 at 8:36 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • How can you ask for no drama when the whole situation IS drama. I suggest you first put yourself in his wife's place and ask how you would feel, then ask yourself why you would risk YOUR relationship for someone who obviously doesn't know the meaning of commitment, and finally you should dig deep down and find a little can do better.

    Answer by MrsMWF at 8:37 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • It's wrong, pretty simple to me. He's married, you are in a relationship, that in itself IS drama.

    Answer by ILoveCade at 8:37 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Yea what is the question????

    Answer by louise2 at 8:37 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • You want no drama but you plan on ruining two relationships by being a slut????

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:38 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • how would you feel if you were married and the guy was your husband doing this?

    Answer by jenn4443 at 8:40 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

  • Can we say troll?

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:43 PM on Jun. 11, 2011

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