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My SO said he doesnt feel special

what are the top ten ways to make him feel special?


Asked by lizzybee44 at 12:15 AM on Jun. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • You spoil him! Tell him he doesn't make you feel special. I don't think ive ever heard this before

    Answer by megclark22 at 1:19 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • idk.... dont know what ur husband likes

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:17 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • Give him a j/k ask him what it is that makes him feel that way. Maybe he just needs some affection.

    Answer by justme782 at 12:18 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • well besides sex.. most men like sex.. dress up sexy for him. put on his shirt and some high heels and let him find out theres no panties :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:18 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • Be a good listener. Put him before your friends. Make his favorite meals. When you go shopping together, look at things he likes. Join him in his favorite hobbies. (We are to be their companion in their interests) Best wishes!

    Answer by etexmom at 12:43 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • when i asked what his interests are he said "our problems, things you gotta solve, calculations, puzzles, cars, mechanics, building structures, looking at things that are aesthetic vs strength, form vs funcion"

    these are his interests, what can i do with that??

    if i touch him sexually he pushes me away, i could be a better listener, i DEF put him before my friends always, i made his fave meal tonight (spagetti and meat balls), he hates shopping with a passion, and he likes TOOLS so might buy him some like a welder, a lathe, a C N C machine, an engine lift, cherry picker...

    the things i offered right before he said this were: have a lot of sex, research places we could go to school together, places we could live together in our future, go to barnes n nobles, teach me how to sew, write a business plan, draw together, have a water baloon fight, go to the book store, fish on the pier, create art from scratch, stay up all night

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 1:03 AM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • go to the beach and play football (we just got a new one and only used it once), take my dog to the dog park and the list goes on! Im super creative when it comes to coming up with things to do FOR him and WITH him but he just doesn't want to do ANY of that stuff
    i spend so much money on him too, buy him stuff when he least expects it but i feel so underappreciated since he's still saying "nothing matters" and "i don't mean much to you, do i" im so frustrated i love him so much and SHOW it a lot!

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 1:07 AM on Jun. 12, 2011