your husband wanted you to put your 17 month old upstairs because she was, quote, "bitching and crying and we have friends over that are trying to sleep" ? when you say you don't care, she's being a kid and the friends don't care either, the only one who cares is you, and she doesn't have to be isolated because we stayed up til 3 am drinking and our friends are passed out on the couch.. and he gets mad, storms off, flicks you off with both fingers and says "what the fuck ever. fuck me right? g-d damnit."
how would that scenario make you feel? what does it say about his character? the truth is, the couple that stayed here has crashed on our couch about 4 times now and we've always offered the spare bedroom but they LIKE the couch, and the first time they chose it i made sure they understood i have children who wake up early and are loud, and they said they don't care and prefer to sleep on the couch every time they come over to hang out with us (after the kids are in bed). they've made it clear they don't care, and even if they did they could leave if it bothered them. i'm not going to put my baby in seclusion because they want to sleep in peace. go home then or sleep on the bed. i don't think that's rude, as my husband thinks it is, rather me putting my kids' needs before some friends' needs.
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