Me and my ex have 2 girls, 5 and 8. We have gotten along ok since we divorced until he got remarried. He wife finds fault in everything I do with my girls (it's not even her business what I do with them, short of abuse). Well I am COed to send over their clothes during visitation (they see him one week at the beginning of the summer and one week towards the end). I packed them a weeks worth of shorts/ skorts and tank tops plus 2 dresses each. I also send bikinis (they are both tall and skinny so if they wear one pieces, they are either too short and they have camel toe or they are too baggy and privates show. I sent them one pair of tennis shoes, a pair of flip flops and a pair of dress shoes each (with the half inch heal on them). So they got back yesterday and their bags have nothing in them but socks, underwear (all dirty) and the tennis shoes and flip flops. I asked their dad where everything else was, he said SM felt that they were inappropriate so she threw them away to make sure they don't wear them again. I was FUMING mad (the dresses were Lura Ashley, which are expensive) and I told him not to expect any clothes to come with them next time, he said that violates the CO. Really, it doesn't because I sent clothes over and didn't get them back so as far as I am concerned, they still have them. WWYD? should I send new ones next time or not? I am so pissed off because I will now have to replace a lot of clothes nowAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Jun. 12, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 3:11 PM on Jun. 12, 2011
nope. you sent the clothes, and no matter what you did with them, you "don't know" that they threw them away, so, in your eyes, they have clothes there. let him have to buy clothes for them.
are they close? in all honesty, if it were me, and they lived close enough to where i could drive there, i'd be pounding on the door either demanding my clothes back or the money for the clothes.
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