we got in a fight a few days ago- a pretty bad one that led us to the conclusion we should try couples counseling. we RARELY ever fight or argue, but when we do these deep things come up (like insecurities about our sex life or him thinking i'm such a negative person)...when it's good, it's great- but things were definitely a little shaky the other day.
he swears breaking up hasn't even entered his mind and says he wants to be with me forever and work these things out. so we've been talking a lot and this morning it seemed like maybe things were going back to normal. BOTH of us were extremely hurt, and i cried many tears- so i felt relieved that he was the one being more "normal".
then out of nowhere he's mr. pouty and being a downer- when i ask what's wrong he says he just keeps thinking about us and the horrible argument and how i thought he was going to leave me or something...but he always tells me after an argument that what's done is done and all we can do is grow and move forward together, not mope about what happened...
so WHY is he still moping?? and what am i supposed to do?? i feel like i'm doing all these things to make him feel better, yet he's neglecting the fact that he hurt me too. any advice??
Asked by Anonymous at 4:47 PM on Jun. 12, 2011 in Relationships
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