I was once married to a man of chinese decent ( his great grandparents came to this country ) ... he never spoke of his "culture" in fact I knew more things about chinese culture than he did ( when I was younger, we lived next door to an older woman who was from china - she married an american soldier- and sometimes she would babysit me and my brother and tell us about her childhood) ...
We also had 2 daughters together ...
During out whole relationship his parents ignored me, they didnt like me ( because I was white ) ... so they never came to our wedding, they only seen their grandaughters once ( when we went to their house because his dad was in bad health) ...
After 3 years of marriage, he also decided he didnt want anything to do with me ( or our kids) , we divorced and he signed his rights over and completely dissappeared ( i heard from some of his old friends that he is living about 5 states away with some other woman now) ...
I recently won money in the lottery ( not a ton though, but enough that I was able to pay off my car and do alot of improvments to my house, and then some put back for when my girls are older) ... well 2 days after it was "annouced" ( since i bought the ticket at the local gas station, it was on the local news ) ... well all of a sudden they went and filed papers that they want custody of my girls !!!!
Of course at first I was shocked and worried ( thinking OMG someone wants to take my babies away) ... but then I realized that they wont be able to ( or shouldnt be) and I got a good lawyer...
We can prove that they have never had any contact with my children, and we are also aloud to mention that they filed right after it was public record of the money winnings and that they also are asking for child support ( makes it even more fishy) ... My lawyer told me not to worry at all ...but he also told me there would be a small chance they could get a small amount of visitation... and that bothers me sooo much !!! But my mom said that if they know they wont be getting money for visitation, she doubts they would still want it....
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